There’s nothing more dramatic then when your husband thumps you on your hip playfully and you body explodes into a bout of firey pain.. and you lose your grip on being nice. It feels like I have just been jabbed with a red hot poker and often I am not polite about it. Thank the universe that the husband is pretty easygoing and doesn’t get butt hurt by my outbursts (mostly). I get it completely from his aspect – it is just a little playful thump and now he feels horrible to have hurt me. I am sure it’s confusing because sometimes it’s all over, and sometimes it’s just certain spots. There’s no constant, so how do you judge where you can and can’t touch?
It happens on occasion when I bump into or rub against things as well.. it doesn’t even have to be a hard knock. Pre- fibro, I thought this was a weird symptom of my sensitive skin but later realized it’s a pretty common occurrence among sufferers. It also sucks, in case you were wondering.
There are days when my clothes turn against me and fell like sandpaper on my skin and sometimes my scalp gets sore (and sticky, like it’s raw and sometimes there are actual sores – anyone else have this pleasure?). I have to wear my hair up at work at all times and generally just leave it like that because it’s easier, often this doesn’t help. Sometimes just getting a hug can be excruciating.
By far I find this one of the most perplexing symptoms.. and I have yet to find anything that really helps. So if I avoid being touched.. it’s really not you, it’s me.